

Along w/ all of these physical developments are coming some emotional ones. It is frequently a battle of the wills when we get Sophie in the high chair or on the changing table. I'm convinced that my mom prayed that God would give me a strong-willed child so I could see what she went through w/ me. Don't get me wrong, I love my daughter very much, but I recognize (more and more each day) that she is a sinner and that shepherding her is a huge responsibility. It just amazes me how quickly we went from tiny and cuddly to huge and independent. I know you're thinking, "how independent can a 9-month-old be?" You apparently have not met Sophie. She is very much her own person, and I consider that a blessing. It is a ton of fun to watch her work. But at the same time I need a daily measure of grace and strength to know how best to teach her and lovingly discipline her. My daily prayer is that Erik and I will "train her up in the way she should go so that when she is old she will not depart from it." I know we would appreciate your prayers as well :).

This is the saddest face you'll ever see...Sophie post-screaming. When she's REALLY upset you can tell because she gets splotchy.
It's hard to believe this was all 9 months ago!
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Okay - Sophie looks like she has just had the most devastating thing happen to her. Hmmm ... is she strong willed or just easily heart broken when things don't go her way? Just remember, channel that will for the Lord and she will be mighty in spirit (sage advice from the doctor who delivered you - who also knew our struggles when you exerted your will. AND just for the record, I did not pray for you to have a strong willed child, but while having such a child may present challenges, it is a tremendous blessing to see them grow into adults who love their God.
Thanks for all the great details Catherine. I've got to figure out a way to come and see Sophie!
cath, if you and erik get pregnant now, your kids will be 18 months apart, just like me and erik!!!
jenny
Catherine, I understand COMPLETELY. I have two girls who are not afraid to assert themselves occasionally... and one VERY strong-willed baby who asserts herself frequently and loudly! If you figure out how to handle a strong-willed child wisely and gracefully, let me know!! I just keep reminding myself that one day she will be an amazing leader who is hopefully very passionate for the Lord. :)
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